- Sr. Rosy Malekudy FHGS
“I have called you friends, because I have made known to you everything that I have heard from my Father.” (Jn 15:15)
Friendship is mutual goodwill and love of two persons who accept each other in a profound manner in view of reciprocal growth.
“To be friend is to be yourself for another person”, said the Scottish philosopher John Mac Murray. In friendship, one shares one’s innermost thoughts and feelings with the other. Friendship is a loving commitment of two or more persons. It begins when two or more individuals discover that they have something in common. So friendship is an open, trusting, abiding and reciprocal relationship of affection often based on common interests.
Friendship helps us experience love and mutual acceptance. Friendship promotes care, concern and understanding. It helps us grow in self-knowledge. In friendship, we discover not only our friends but increasingly more about our own selves. Friends motivate us to expand our outlook on life. They challenge us to grow in our ability to trust. Friendship is capable of warding off loneliness. It guarantees happiness and joy in the midst of the worst tribulations. Friendship is one of the greatest gift a human being can receive. True friendship is being with the other in joy and sorrow although we can’t increase the joy or decrease the sorrow involved.
Friendship involves presence both physical presence and presence of mind; patience involve a patient endurance of the limitations of our friends; and finally, it is a never-ending, ever-growing relationship.
Friendship is a fundamental human experience that transcends cultural, social, and personal boundaries. It is a relationship built on mutual respect, trust, and understanding. Friendships enrich our lives, providing emotional support, joy, and a sense of belonging.
Friendship plays a crucial role in our emotional and mental well-being. Friends offer support during tough times, celebrate our successes, and share in the mundane aspects of everyday life. They provide a sense of security, knowing that there is someone who cares and understands us. Studies have shown that strong social connections can lead to longer, healthier lives by reducing stress and promoting a sense of happiness and fulfillment.
Qualities of a True Friend are trustworthiness, empathy, loyalty, and honesty. Like any relationship, friendships can face challenges. Misunderstandings, conflicts, and changes in life circumstances can strain the bond. Effective communication and a willingness to resolve conflicts are essential in overcoming these challenges. True friends are willing to work through difficulties, understanding that these experiences can strengthen the relationship. In a world that is constantly changing, the steadfast presence of a friend can be a source of stability and happiness. Cherishing and cultivating friendships is not only beneficial for our well-being but also adds meaning and depth to our lives.
The friendship of Jesus was based on purity of intuition. He did not expect anything from his friends except their love and loyalty. “A friend is one who comes in when the whole world has gone out.”
